To move ahead you need to believe in yourself...have conviction in your beliefs and the confidence to execute those beliefs.Trust yourself and your instincts. Truth is that you know yourself more than any one else in this world. People often say that they know you well, they make assumptions or claims or whatever and they try to be well wishers...well they could be...but half of it is hoax and the other half is..well as I said.."assumptions"...so just blow away the negativity, set sail and cherish the vistas that lay ahead in the present and in the future. Would be a pity if you don't enjoy your life now...you worked for it and you pushed your way through. No one except your parents has the right to question your integrity. Some people are important in your life..as valuable as pearls...but then it's just a worldly thing. Nothing is more important than you yourself. Everyone has the right to be a little practical in life. I am, so is the bitch upstairs, the priest in the church, and so do you. You are just a human; mortal being bound to err as many times as you can, until you find and know the right answer. Look for your own peace and your own corner. I know it's hard to let go but then at the end of the day you want a slice of the bread for yourself too.